Die Hard Stories

Here are a few of the many stories showing up on the new Facebook Group called The Die Hards.

As a songwriter and musician, it’s just simply the most amazing feeling to read these outpourings from our closest fans.
Head over to The Die Hards to read them all.

Sandie Antil Vanderpool
I’m a 42 year old mother of 6….yes, 6 that’s not a typo lol who was married to a Vietnam Era Combat Veteran for 11 years. In October 2012 the PTSD and other medical ailments that plagued him finally won out and he committed suicide while on the psych ward at the V.A. hospital.
Needless to say this was the worst day of my life. I didn’t think I could breathe much less go forward from that awful day.
In the weeks to follow I made a lot of changes to my home in an attempt to make “our” home, “my” home.
One day I turned the cable music choice channel on. Never did it before but needed my mind to shut off and the radio wasn’t cutting it that day. Cranked the channel and half listened to what was playing as I repainted “my” bedroom. This song…. “Sorry” came on. I’d never heard it before….or had heard it and not paid much attention.
Today I paid attention. Rapt attention. I ended up sitting down and just bawling. It was as if my husband had reached me from the grave to apologize for the suffering he had left me with.
I *HAD* to know this band.
Art of Dying? Great I am depressed enough this can’t be a good idea. But that song just kept playing in my head. So i kept on looking. The Art of Dying is My Life to Live. Oh My Goodness. It was just what i needed. So I buy the “Art of Dying” cd and “Vices and Virtues”
Wow. “Get Through This” ? These people *GET* real life. “Best I can”. *sigh*
One night I couldn’t sleep and found the video for “I’ll be there”. More tears. But good tears. I am not as alone in the world as I felt.
Fast forward, its been 6 months this month since my husband took his life. I listen to Art of Dying EVERY DAY. Sometimes ALL day. And it gets me through.
They are playing in Nashua, NH next month. That happens to be where my brother lives. Its 7 hours away and that is a short jet to go see these men who have gotten me through some of the darkest day I have experienced. I. Can. Not. Wait. ♥

Wendy Palin
My story: this started out to be the worst year of my life with going through a divorce and all and my friend played one AOD song for me and got me hooked! Now when I listen to all the songs each seems to have a special meaning..it’s amazing!

Shauna Rangel
Why am I here? Why am I a fan? Well, actually, that’s easy. Because Art of Dying are epic. Beside an amazing sound and lyrics that make sense to everyone, they’re real. These men are real. They genuinely love what they do, they love their fans and they love every opportunity they get to demonstrate that love. I came across them when David Draiman tweeted about them back in.. oh, I think it was January, 2011. I thought since he was speaking so highly of the band, I’d check them out. Lemme tell ya, I was blown away by what I heard. Guitar riffs that ripped through my speakers, a drum line that demanded attention, and a voice… Well, there was no denying the voice. And they were cute, to boot!

I spent the next couple of months listening to their music, friending them here on Facebook, getting to know their lyrics, and finding myself always coming back to the words. Always the words. Because right around that time was a really, really bad one for me. At that time, it seemed like anything that could go wrong, did. Personal disasters were hitting me left and right. Because of everything that was happening in my life, Get Through This struck home and stayed there. It became my anthem. Every day, I listened to that song, over and over and over again. I clung to the words that Jonny sang like a lifeline. Sometimes his voice in my head was the only thing keeping me holding on. His voice, and the words he sang, were the only reason I kept putting on foot in front of the other during those months that spring. In April, I thought, just for fun, I’d enter the Avalanche tour ticket contest. I figured, all I really had to do was enter my email address and select a location. No harm, right? Besides, what was the likeliness that I’d actually win tickets? I never win anything. Ever.
April 28th, I logged into my email. “CONGRATULATIONS!! YOU’VE WON!!”
So I went to the show, I met them, and the rest is DieHard history. (If you want to read that history, it’s in my notes on my page. =D)
~Turtle

Reven Rachel Eve
I have been a fan of Jonny & Art Of Dying for awhile, even moreso recently. Jonny literally saved my life this month. On March 31 I tweeted “Bawlin my eyes out listenin2 #BestICan by @ArtOfDying. @JonnyArtOfDying’s voice is soothing. I just don’t wanna be here:/”
After crying myself to sleep & contemplating suicide, I awoke the next morning to find Jonny replied telling me to stay strong. My own family & friends don’t give me hope, so I was so moved that a celebrity would care when the people around me don’t.

Marla Mar StMartin
How I got here. Years ago my Mother was diagnosed with Breast Cancer, She went through surgeries and chemo, and treatment, the Day before her 2 yr Anniv of what we hoped to be Remission, I got a phone call, She had fallen and the cancer was back, In the form of a brain tumor. I gave up everything in my life Including Music for a long time. I was Angry, Sad and felt the most helpless I had ever felt in my life. Then I turned on the Radio on day during this. and heard.. Get thru this.. I luved it. I spent many days traveling Back and forth to the states to see my Mom, And everytime I left I had the fear and wondering it was going to be the last time. I knew when I left 2 yrs ago today it was the last time, My Father wanted me to Stay longer, I couldn’t, my Job, ect.. I had taken so Much time off from work already that year. I remember saying to my Gather Im Sorry I have to say Goodbye. 3 days later the song Sorry came on the radio here. I pulled over and cried. Every feeling, every emotion I had been going through was right there. I chatted briefly with Cale on his birthday that year And he told me Check out our music all of it, and the rest of the band. After I heard Sorry. I Knew … This is what I needed, And I haven’t looked back, Yes there is a lot to my story but this is it in a Nutshell. And I feel like I have gained 5 brothers, and a whole lot of Good People / Family here, And I Thank you all. Mar~

Chelsea Amundson
My journey started with the amazing guys in Art of Dying 5 years ago. The first song I ever heard was “Get Thru This”, and it instantly spoke to me. It was the heartfulness, realness in Jonny’s voice. That song really is how I live my life. Over these last 5 years the guys have really helped me SO much, thru ALL the hard times that I have went thru (never once did I give up) the guys and their music has always been there for me. These last 5 years have been the BEST years of my life!

Barb Kole
I will never forget the day my friend called me up and said, you have got to hear this song by Art of Dying, it’s called Best I Can. I sat down on my couch and streamed it through my stereo. I was in tears. I could not imagine that an artist could connect so personally to me like that. I could not wait to hear more. So much of their music speaks to me, I don’t know how they do it. Then my friend and I saw them at Uproar in 2011. Damn they were amazing. I was hooked. And to see how much they love their fans, I adore them even more. I hope to meet them one day so I can thank them in person for what their music has done for me. My journey has not been an easy one but each time I listen to those songs, I get the strength to keep going and know that I can get through anything!! ♥

Tami Hoffman Carper
May 2012, House of Blues Chicago. Opening act for Shinedown. Whoa. Hubby bought me the CD and that was all she wrote. Love at first listen! After losing my dad in Dec. 2011, it was pretty rough going… it was a sudden loss. Listening to V&V, every single song was like my life set to music. Breathe Again makes me cry everytime, because thats was I was feeling everyday, just trying to BREATHE! Die Trying became my anthem! I had a chance to see them again in Joliet at Mojoes and while standing outside before the show who comes walking down the street?? Jonny, Cale, Tavis, Jeff and Greg! Holy moly! My hubby told me if I scream he will walk away from me. I said, “what do I say???” Umm… “Try hello”. LOL So I did, and the guys were so nice, took time to talk, etc… omg, it was amazing. Then after they played, I got a poster for my 8 year old and they all signed it, took time to chat some more and we shared a few drinks after. Since then my life has been about living and making my life my “art of dying”. I was able to break a shell that was around me for years. I welcomed music back into my life, went back to the OLD me, the happy me, the fun me. I have met some amazing people through AoD, including the guys!! lol, and probably one of my best friends ever. So thank you for tearing down my walls with your music… I cannot thank you enough! Die Hard forever and ever!! \m/ ♥ \m/

Carol Slattery
I became a fan of Art of Dying by seeing them open for a band I love, Evanescence… Got tickets to see them in Nashville, and there was no mention of an opening act. The first opening band was typically not very interesting, but then the next band started with a song called “Die Trying”. I had heard it before (on XM Octane) & enjoyed it. Then they went into “Get Thru This” and my friend & I looked at each other & said, hey maybe these guys are ok… Then came “Sorry” & “Raining” with these amazing harmonies and we were hooked. Then they did this absolute blow you out of the water cover of ” Man in a Box”! So cool to that they were around after to meet & greet. Got a picture w Jonny & he was kind enough to sign the CD we bought. Listened to the CD all the way home, waiting for a bad track that never came.
Loved them so much that we got tix to see them & others in Atlanta & got to hang w them again. Teased Tavis about hitting a bridge in NY (good sport) & got to chat w Cale & Jonny after FFDP. Still listening to AoD over all bands we saw… Tho I do have a real appreciation for Shinedown now. Thanks to AoD for some great songs & memories!

Daniel J Bourgeois
I have been a fan of AoD since their self-titled “Demo” album came out. Such a different, positive sound. “Do What You Can” will go down as one of my favorite songs, ever. I bought “Vices and Virtues” the day it was released and haven’t stopped listening to it since. I own a copy that stays inside, one that stays in my truck and a copy that I had them sign at Station 58 in Syracuse last summer. I still remember how humble they were when we met them. They’ve quickly become my absolute favorite band, I’m even planning am AoD tattoo at some point (With their blessing, of course.) Can’t wait to see what they’ve got planned in the future and for some new music!
Cheers boys.

Brandye Glass
I can say I’m one of the fortunate ones as I’ve seen the guys live a total of 7 times. I was first introduced to their music when they were added to the Avalanche tour in 2011 with Halestorm, Theory of a Deadman and Stone Sour. I looked then up and got Vices and Virtues before going to the show so I would be familiar with the music and I fell in love instantly! Since that date, I have traveled up to 14 hours one way just to see them play a 20-25 minute set. They are definitely my favorite band and 5 of the most amazing people I know. They always take the time to talk to their fans! I cannot wait to see them again. I’ve been going through withdrawals for way too long!!

Keith Petrovich
Art of dying, like most bands was a recommendation for me. The recommendation came from a band that many know as Three days grace. I’ll admit I didn’t know who they were at first, but the moment I heard die trying I KNEW that they were going to be an amazing band. The first time I saw them on uproar, I met Jonny and the gang, I was so glad that they were down to earth. I met them again at Joliet, where I got to talk one on one with all of them, especially Cale who was really awesome! I love the music, from song 1 to the end, the bonus’s, the acoustics, the old album, everything. They have kept me in rock and roll. Dont forget people, Rock is a lifestyle.. rock will never die, especially when talented people like ART OF DYING still rock on! DIE TRYING!


Voice of Inspiration

I’m often asked in interviews who has been my biggest influence as a vocalist. I’ve always sung from the heart, but Eddie Vedder is the singer that inspired me to dig even a little deeper. I’ve been fortunate to see Pearl Jam perform more than a few times and Eddies performances are passionate, flawless and above all real. Here are some cool black and whites I came across that tell my favorite part of Eddie’s story.


Get Thru Anything Tee Shirt

I’m proud to announce the launch of Jonny Hetherington Clothing beginning with the words that really started it all for me: “If I Can Get Thru This I Can Thru Anything”. This seemingly simple group of words has meant so much to me in my personal life, originally inspired by my father’s battle with cancer. After sharing the words with you they have taken on new meaning through your stories of hardship and perseverance, which have reinspired me to face any challenge in life. I hope you will continue to live passionately and fight your way through every battle. Try and remember to celebrate each step of success along the way. Whether it’s the marathon you’re training for or simply finding a way to get through the day, wear your Get Thru Anything Tee Shirt with pride and enjoy the fact that you are not alone – we are in this together.

Jonny

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Best of 2012 #16

Four Million YouTube views
Our YouTube channel hit 4 million views. Enough said. What a milestone of your support! Thank you.


Best of 2012 #12

88 Keys
I brought a baby grand piano into my life last year, and it’s such a pleasure to have. A day hasn’t gone by where I haven’t sat down and enjoyed this amazing instrument. I had forgotten how amazing a piano can be.



Best of 2012 #11

Vegas Baby Vegas!
After playing Rock Vegas (what a blast!) the entire band stayed at Mandalay Bay for a week to do some writing and piece together some ideas for our next record. You may not know that jamming like this is pretty rare for us, as we’re spread out across the country, so when we get together it’s truly special. The week was magical – making music, throwing cards and sampling our very first caviar in Sin City.


Best of 2012 #2

Happy New Year! 2012 has come and gone. Here are some of my most memorable moments from an amazing year.

On The Road

We played some milestone shows last year including the Avalanche Tour with Shinedown and Adelitas Way. SummerFest and Rock Fest were also huge highlights… actually almost every show we played has become part of my most memorable moments of 2012.



Smashing TVs – A Lost Art?

I don’t own a TV. Sure I catch up on some of my favorite shows on my lap top from time to time, but I said goodbye to the traditional clunky TV set years ago. I remember a party I threw a few years back with my room mates – we thought we were “oh so cool” by stacking 3 TVs from the 70s and 80s that we had collected from the Vancouver alleys (all which worked BTW) in a corner, which were tuned into different channels of static, snow and emergency broadcast test meters from as far back on the dial as we could twist. The TV sculpture was a perfect compliment to cranked Nine Inch Nails and cheap local beer.

But much has changed. As technology continues to rear it’s wonderful head, the TV has developed into a sleek flat screen unit that sits above your fireplace or hovers near the top shelf liquor at your local pub. The flat screen is a “must have” item. It takes up less space, mimics a theatre screen and embraces HD quality programming. It seems they are everywhere. The gym, the pub, the elevator, hell, you can even have a flat screen in the can! Marvelous!

I’ve been reading the Ozzy Osbourne biography, entitled “I Am Ozzy“. It’s a great “rags to riches” memoir of music, drugs and touring, which I’ve had fun with as I’m going through similar situations in the world of Art of Dying. In the later chapters of the book, Ozzy realizes that he has never smashed a TV. What? Never smashed a TV? All those years with Black Sabbath and never smashed a Telley? Ozzy has done it all – he’s pissed on the Alamo, snorted a line of ants, bitten the heads off of multiple winged creatures… I mean this man has set the bar for all rock n rollers behind him… but never smashed a TV? Well, he realizes this and shortly after drinking an entire mini bar with Zakk Wylde, they hurl the TV out their hotel window to the pool area below. Ozzy can sleep well now knowing that the bottom of his rock n roll to do list now contains a check mark.

I haven’t bit the head off of anything (except a Guinness or two), or pissed on any monuments (that I know of), or snorted any bugs (on purpose), but I have had the wonderful pleasure of smashing a TV with my partner in crime, Mr. Tavis Stanley.
It was a late night, a very late night, and a poker hand gone terribly wrong that lead to some debauchery that only the kinship of band members can fully create or understand that lead to the short but direct flight of a 42″ Sylvainia from the 3rd floor to the tarmac below. It was not the proudest of moments, but there was a sense of freedom that came with this smash that I embrace to this day.

This got me thinking. Smashing a TV is an art form. It’s a stroke of the rock n roll paint brush. It’s a way of unloading your frustrations and “stickin’ it to the man”, all while hearing the loudest distorted D chord in your head. In one foul swoop it smashes the “programming”, the commercials, the infomercials, the day time dramas, the talk shows, the game shows, the news from the left, the news from the right, reality tv, PBS, the weather network, and yes, even MTV. It smashes the idea that we need these boxes in the corners of every room telling us how to live our lives. It smashes “The Joneses”, the suburbs and the two car garage. It smashes the 50,s the 60′s the 70,s the 80′s and part of the 90s. I think SCTV had it right all along… I remember my parents ‘tuning in’ to watch this great Canadian comedic brain drain phenom of a series and I was always captivated by the intro of TVs simultaneously smashing on the pavement below… (is that Mississauga?)

But this art form is threatened. It is coming to a permanent end. The flat screen TV just can’t carry the baton – the torch cannot be passed. Throwing a flat screen out of a window is simply awkward and holds none of the charm, character or rebellion of smashing it’s predecessor. And if you did manage to get it out the window, what would it sound like? A small, “crack” or perhaps an unintimidating folding noise? Hell, if it landed properly, you could probably go retrieve it and it might even still work. Without the earth shattering “BOOM” of the traditional box TV, the tube exploding, the screen shattering, dials bouncing from the scene, all with a dusty brown power cable in tow, you have nothing! The experience is lost. The art is dead. As Jerry Seinfeld so poignantly jokes, you just can’t slam down a cordless phone. There’s no joy in it.

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So, enjoy your flat screens people. Put them in your homes. Proudly display them on the very same stand that your old ‘cube TV’ used to sit on (saving you absolutely zero space BTW) and kick back for another episode of your favorite HD show knowing that you are killing the art of smashing TVs. Thankfully we will always have the electric guitar to destroy in the defiance of all and the ever lasting name of rock and roll.